Hello all,
I want to introduce myself to you, as potential readers of my work, to let you into a look at my life, my work and how I became ''Lola White''!!
It's a long story but I hope it's still interesting for you to read. :)
I was born in 1957 in a place called Cleethorpes in Lincolnshire. I have 3 siblings, or at least I did, but, I lost a Sister in 2006. My Mother, who never told me this, was also Psychic. I did not find this out till one night, she did a small reading for a young friend of mine, but we didnt take much notice, until, the time came it all came true, I realized I had this gift too...even though, Mum did tell us when kids, a Gypsy told her, that her 3rd child would inherit a gift. The 3rd child being myself...we didnt know what this 'gift' was going to be...so my Sisters argued at the time, the 'second oldest Sister,' reckoned that SHE must be the one who was going to get this 'gift' as Mum lost a baby after her 1st child...but...this wasnt going to be the case...and so...years went by from me being a young girl, who always had strange things happen to her, which I thought...everyone did?
Ok, for instance, one Xmas day, while out on my brand new bike with a friend, we cut through the Cemetary to go home. As we biked into the gates, I noticed a man walking from a grave, get on his bike and ride off...nothing unusual...to some...but to me...it wasnt 'feeling right'? So, I watched him...he stopped inside the Church Arch, where there were public toilets...something in my head told me, ''go fast through that Arch!!'' I just 'knew' I had to obey the 'voice' , so, I called out to my friend to go fast too, but she wasnt listening, she was fixing her bike chain for some reason...so I shouted to her again to ''go FASTER' as I was worried about her not knowing why...even though I didnt...the 'voices' warning made me do as I was told. As I pedalled as fast as I could to go through the Arch...there was the man...naked from the waist down!!
I was in shock but wasnt in a way, because I just knew something wasnt going to be right? I screamed to my friend to go fast, she did and we both rode home...shocked to tell our parents. That wasnt a problem to me...I ALWAYS heard the 'voice'...as everyone did...didnt they?? This was when I was only around 12 years old. As life journeyed on...so did my experiences! I will not go into them all, but, wow, there were many! One that really haunted me was when I was a mother myself, a very young one too. I had my 1st child at 16. By the time this occurred, I had 3 chidren, all under 5, I was 19.
My Grandma, who I loved dearly, lived with us. She was from Liverpool, as was my Mother, very strong fiesty Women too! Poor Gran...God gave me an Angel with her. She was my rock, as we didnt have a very good time growing up..two parents who drank and also attacked each other very regularly. There she would be, protecting and nurturing myself and my little Brother...as my Sisters had left home by the time it got this bad at home. So, what happened? She had to have her leg amputated from below the knee..it totally gutted me. I would visit Mums every day to see her, in her little front room at Mums, alone most of the time as Mum and Dad were regular drinkers out every day. I would sit with her, or take her home to mine in her wheelchair.
One of these days I went to visit. Later in the day, Mum and Dad were back from the local they used, so were both annebriated, which I couldnt bare to see, but, that was how it was, till this day. I remember it well. Dad was in her room, shouting at her as she laid in her bed, helpless...and I just lost it! Threw him literally out her room, then he threw a small bag of frozen prawns, which narrowly missed my babys head! Well, once I lost it, something seemed to take over...he left the room again voluntarily, as he saw how I had lost it, so seemed to sense to walk away. As I sat next to my Grandmother, shaking in temper, asking her if she was ok, to which she replied ''i am ok'' as she shook...I said this...and I do not know where it came from...''its ok Gran, you watch, you will outlive him and he will end up in this bed too''!!
I was so angry, but, I adored my Father...and yes, within weeks, poor Gran was rushed into Hospital suffering from a stroke....Dad too had a mild one...ended up in her bed...days later he was taken to the same Hospital as Gran, where he passed away...one week before her?? This never left me...as I even saw it in my mind before he even got ill. So, She oulived him...one week...as I said she would, a week is a week. From then on..I KNEW I wasnt the same as everyone after all...this is when I started to notice all things going on around me from that day on. From 'feeling others moods' to 'seeing flashes of forthcoming images' and also...going to see my father...in Hhaven!!! Yes...Astral travel took me there!! A LONG time of being forced out of my body..to the extent I had to ask my Husband to keep his arms tight around me at night, so as to stop them. I endured many of these experiences...before I was taken to see my Father...sounds unbelievable yes? All true!
I have loved...and lost...I have lost my husband of 31 years...two Sons within 8 months of each other...a Sister a few months before them...a Mother...a Gran..a Father...and many more...I was diagnosed with Cancer the same week as my Son was...so I have known pain....I survived...to tell my Story...to others...I went on to find I had urges to tell people things if 'needed' to...these things all happened...and so the life of Lola White, the Psychic began. Now the name...I didnt choose this name...it was 'given' to me....out of the air...one night at a friends...when her friend called her to ask if they could come join us, my friend told her friend she had someone here who might tell them their fortune...and she put me on the phone....the person asked my name....and for some reason...I said ''Lola White''??? Why?? I have no idea?? And so..Lola White was born. My real name is exclusive...to me...;-)
From then I went on to the new thing out...the 'Internet'...which I had no idea how to use. My son who Died had it installed when he came home from living away...so I had to have a go!! This was 2003. I was Nursing my poorly Hubby at home at the time, so the Internet helped me through many dark depressing hours while he slept. It took me to very interesting places where I could write my thoughts and feelings ...and 'flashing images' if I ever got them while on it. One of them being a flash about Robbie Wiliams! Which I actually managed to get on the Internet by fluke!!!
I was desperate to get my flash out there, as I had a premonition about him, but, no idea what to do with it. One day, I sat at the Computer and typed in his name, low and behold, a page opened you could actually write on! BBC message boards Stoke \ Staffs. So, that was the beginning of that...this led me to many people, and sites I wrote forecasts for...as well as 'recognition' from his Father thanking me, also many many other things...I cannot disclose...but anyway...all forecasts I did then, I still like to do now...due to 'interest'. On I went, so I eventually learned a lot more about the Internet....kept myself to myself...wrote for many...Internationally too...so...I hope this little bit of insight guides you to me...for any Guidance you may need.
Lots of love Lola xxx